I never expected the words to hit me like a punch to the chest. I had thought our relationship was strong, filled with love, passion, and shared dreams. I trusted her, cared deeply, and imagined a future together. Then one evening, in the middle of what I thought was a loving conversation, she looked at me with cold eyes and said, “Tom, you are a 1-minute man and I don’t love you.” The words were harsh, humiliating, and crushing.
For days afterward, I could barely think straight. My confidence, my sense of worth, and my identity seemed to unravel in an instant. I replayed our relationship in my mind, questioning every moment, every action, and every word. How could someone I loved so deeply speak to me with such cruelty? I felt embarrassed, ashamed, and utterly defeated. It was as if all the love I had invested had been meaningless.
I tried to speak with her afterward, to understand why she would say something so cruel, but she refused to engage. Friends tried to console me, telling me that perhaps she…https://drkashiririka.com/?swahili_post=tom-you-are-a-1-minute-man-and-i-dont-love-you-she-told-me
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